Despite its clear emergence as a new form of family union in Botswana, no study has been done on cohabitation in the country. Consequently, the specific dimensions influencing the formation of these unions are only dimly understood. The first part of my study involved quantitative analysis of various data sources to examine the levels and differentials of cohabitation in Botswana. In order better to understand the patterns that emerged from the quantitative analysis and to explore the issue in more detail between October 2001 and January 2002 I collected qualitative data in Botswana. The purpose of the qualitative study was to obtain insights rather than statistically representative information, hence it was carried out in only two places: Lobatse (an urban area) and Ntlhantlhe (a rural village). This report discusses observations and experiences during the during this data collection exercise.